{"id":77,"date":"2015-09-05T05:50:57","date_gmt":"2015-09-05T05:50:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mudpuddlekiss.com\/?p=77"},"modified":"2015-09-05T05:50:57","modified_gmt":"2015-09-05T05:50:57","slug":"anger","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mudpuddlekiss.com\/index.php\/2015\/09\/05\/anger\/","title":{"rendered":"Anger"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">I am in my anger phase of grief and processing. It feels cathartic to be this pissed off, to vent with friends, to rage against injustice and abuses, to sift through the past 16.5 years, to rip up paper and throw away mementos that are associated with it all. But, though this sort of anger is therapeutic, I do not want it to settle into a form of bitter-anger. So, then, I wonder if I should try to stop the anger&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">I ran across this quote today:<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><em>&#8220;Bitterness is like cancer. It eats upon the host. But anger is like fire. It burns it all clean.&#8221;<\/em><br \/>\n<\/span><span class=\"s1\">&#8211; Maya Angelou<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Exactly. Thank you, Maya. I can be angry. I <em>need<\/em> to be angry. This anger spurs me towards action, towards health, towards closure. This is a process, not a destination.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I am in my anger phase of grief and processing. It feels cathartic to be this pissed off, to vent with friends, to rage against injustice and abuses, to sift through the past 16.5 years, to rip up paper and throw away mementos that are associated with it all. But, though this sort of anger [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-77","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mudpuddlekiss.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/77","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mudpuddlekiss.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mudpuddlekiss.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mudpuddlekiss.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mudpuddlekiss.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=77"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mudpuddlekiss.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/77\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mudpuddlekiss.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=77"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mudpuddlekiss.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=77"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mudpuddlekiss.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=77"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}